Tuesday, July 2, 2013

The essence of giving

Giving is sharing. In giving, it is always accompanied with the sincere act of  sharing a thing that is intended for the person who receives it. The kind of thing being shared matters to me especially when what is given is already out of its timeline.

What I have experienced today makes me think that giving is not for the sake of sharing and all is "worth-fully" done. There need to be the essence of truer giving and that the thing being shared is not expired.  For in this case, if that is the intention, then it is not the act of sharing that has been the purpose of the giver, rather it is the act for the sake of giving for the purpose of labeling that giving without minding what is the state of the nature of the thing being given.

To give is not just for the sake that you give. There should be the heart in the center of it. It is not merely that one gives, then all the rest is up to the person. In giving, sharing is the most to be considered. Why is this so?

1. Don't share when you just give without checking the state or the condition of the thing that you have to give.
2. Share heartily and with a purpose that you share not because you can gain or owe something to the someone.
3. Do not prone yourself to share with people who are close to you. The ones that we neglected oftentimes are those that in the latter sense are the ones who are always there for us to lend a hand.
4. Share with gladness in your heart. It is good to give with a smile. Frowns are discriminators in giving and they just spoil our day out.
5. Do not make sharing nor giving a way to trap a person of making transactions easier for you then especially when you ask for favors. The ones that are winning are those that making no monetary or involving the nature of giving an asset of settling things for fast track. One should work hard to attain what one wants not in the process of giving in order to gain something.
6. Respect the receiver because even though you are the sender, the person who receives the gift is not a dump who couldn't be able to understand what is the business or your motive behind what you give.
7. Never allow giving nor sharing a vice. Spoiling someone when giving or sharing means you are making people lazy. It is proper to give or share at the right time and for the right reason.
8. Discard the concept of winning friends when you give. Friends are always at your side when you do have lots of money to share to them, but if you run out of cash for them to enjoy, they are nowhere to be found.
9. Always think of yourself when you give. Don't paired giving with the riding idea of making the kind of act just for the sake of. It is not about showing what you got that capture to define its meaning. It is the nature of reminding yourself that "can you afford to give this to someone"-thing. Never connote being social-climbers in the process of sharing.
10. Thank you. Always appreciate that even though you are the sharer, the giver, you have the determination and enthusiasm to give because not everyone has the concern and love for everyone. People don't trust individuals when it comes to sharing. It is not inseparable that when one shares, there is a paired request or returns of act that the giver will expect from the sender, a favor per se.

That is why, I end up thinking this day, "Is it because a person has given something to me for the sake of giving?", "Is there a kind of request that has been paired along in this thing, maybe not for now but for the coming days?", etc.

In this world, there is something like a "hidden ground" out of giving and it is up to the receiver to unlock the meaning. 

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